May I find His joy even in my sorrow and His life in my death. To God be the glory!

Wednesday 22 June 2022

Expat Mama Recommends...

Today’s recommendation is: search for the spices! When I first came to Congo for a longer term stay, I had no idea how to find any kind of seasoning besides salt and artificial seasoning powder that’s kind of like boullion cubes.
However, as the days pass I have gotten better at figuring out how to track down the spices I might want. Since my days of salt-only food, I have since been able to incorporate black pepper, ginger and nutmeg, among others. I hope to find cinnamon locally as well at some point, but for now I’m still scooping through my self-imported container. I used to assume that all Congo had was salt and I'd just have to deal with it and pack in the necessary seasonings. Thankfully that is not actually true.
One of the reasons the search for spices has been difficult is that I don’t get out to the market much, and I also don’t know the French names for what I might want. Many spices and seasonings are sold in unlabeled little plastic containers so it’s hard to figure out what they are when you don’t know the word for them. Anyway, my recommendation is that you just keep searching for spices and don’t assume your host country doesn’t have it. It might be somewhere high up on a very dusty shelf at the back of the store.

Thursday 9 June 2022

School’s out

We celebrated the end of the school year (the end of my teaching until the fall) with a party which our pastor’s wife organized for the preschool class. Molly and Eileen were invited even though they only attended the preschool class twice a week for about a month. There was music, dancing, food, juice, popcorn and T-shirts advertising the school. It took them a while to get warmed up but when they did, the girls really enjoyed the dancing and party atmosphere. Eileen ate a ton of food too! Below are some pictures of the festivities:

Saturday 4 June 2022

Changing houses

Here is something I wrote back when we were moving out of our old house:
“We are saying goodbye to the pale yellow walls and brown doors, the glaring light fixtures and smooth peach tiles. I look around at our old house and see the memories imprinted all over it.
The greasy circles along the wall where we sprayed ants with an oily bug spray not knowing the marks would stay forever. Our names carved into the cement of the bath area that Orcxance made himself, complete with a drain pipe. The tin walls of our yard painted with palm trees and parrots, green grass, flowers and fish. The scribbles of marker in various places on the lower half of the walls. The remnants of cement from the doorstep Orcxance created to make it easier to get the motorbike inside. The water stains and mildew and bits of sticky tack from pictures that once decorated the walls. My papaya trees now full grown that I planted and cried over while I was growing a baby myself. The avocado tree, the banana tree, the flowers. The cross made of sticks marking the spot behind the house where I buried my miscarriage.
It’s not really a sad goodbye because we are excited for the next step. But somehow it is a little bit sad as well. This house is full of memories. We had our first dance in this house, played our first game of chess. We conceived four babies in this house and brought our first one home from the hospital to this home. She learned to talk to us in this house.
But despite the memories and the missing of neighbors, Orcxance and I are very happy for this move and thankful for a large new house with plenty of space for all of us. A place to make new memories, host more visitors, plant more fruit trees and flowers, and grow more babies.